Hi Reader, If you’ve been watching Harlem on Prime Video—a modern-day, Black version of Sex and the City—you know the show has been praised for its contemporary, funny, and authentic take on (at least high-end) Black love, friendship, and success. But in the final two episodes of Season 3 (and likely the last), they introduced a polyamory plotline that had me initially excited… and then completely disappointed. Was this finally the nuanced, accurate representation of consensual nonmonogamy...
about 1 month ago • 5 min read
Hi Reader, Valentine’s Day always brings up big conversations about love, commitment, and choosing the right partner. And this year, I had the chance to talk about one of TV’s most iconic love triangles—Carrie, Mr. Big, and Aidan from Sex and the City. I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by Swooon for their new 'Love Lessons' series, where we delved into the intricate dynamics of one of television's most iconic love triangles: Carrie Bradshaw, Mr. Big, and Aidan Shaw from "Sex...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
Hi Reader, If you’ve spent any time on TikTok or Instagram recently, you’ve probably come across mentions of the “4B” movement. Originally a radical feminist movement that took root in South Korea about a decade ago, it’s now making waves in the U.S.—especially after political events many women find deeply upsetting, such as Donald Trump’s presidency. 4B stands for “Four Nos”: no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no children. In other words, it’s a form of complete intentional partnered...
4 months ago • 5 min read